Social Lives
Authors: Katriona O’Sullivan, Serena Clark and Amy McGrane
ALL Institute, Department of Psychology, Maynooth University
When the schools closed in April of 2020, I found myself in the most stressful parenting situation of my entire parenting life. I was left to manage the education needs of my 3 sons; all of whom were at very different stages of their education journey. My studious, stressed-out 15-year-old was about to sit his Junior Cert, while the 11-year-old was in 5th class and the carefree 16-year-old in 5th year. As the ‘educated’ parent in our house and the mother, I was suddenly expected to manage much more than I normally would have. I am already in charge of most of the shopping, cleaning etc. and now the home-schooling too. I remember looking at my husband from across the top of my son’s laptop, after several failed attempts to log-in to Aladdin, thinking – we are not going to make it through this unless something changes. I also remember celebrating the night they announced that the Junior Cert was cancelled AND the constant guilty feeling I had because I let them all sleep late so I could get my own work done. As an academic working in education, and researching technology, I really had no idea how much stress education can bring to a family. Likewise about how hard I would find it adding home-schooling onto the other burdens I carry as a women and mother. I know I am not alone. My friends, colleagues and family feel the same. I have chosen to share some of my personal and research observations from the last few months to highlight some of the gender disparities that are being exacerbated by the pandemic in many homes across the island of Ireland. (Dr Katriona O’Sullivan)
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